friendship/trust

Friendship is based on trust, how can you trust someone who you have never met?

And does it mean the online friendship is not a friendship in full sense?
Or is it based on some different kind of trust?
How REAL an ONLINE friendship can be?
How much can you get attached to someone you have never seen face-to-face?
How much it hurts when they leave? And do they ALWAYS leave?

These are just questions, i have my own answers, you have yours... more of my own you can read on the main blog HERE... more of your thoughts I want to read in my comments section :)

Questions Unanswered

They say "In the end everyone will hurt you. It is up to you to decide who is worth the pain."

And in a way it is really so. Because we do not live in a fairy tale where evil is evil and good is good. We can hurt someone and someone can hurt us, too. But then we struggle to keep our relationships alive. And even with tears in eyes we forgive, forget and get over it (when we can) because anything worth the tears is worth fighting for.

The question is how many people do you have in your life that you can actually say are worth the pain?

Forgive but Don't Forget?

It is tough to say 'I am sorry' but sometimes it is even tougher to accept this 'I am sorry' from someone who hurt you. Because some things can't be fixed with a "sorry".

People say only the strongest can forgive.
Forgive and be forgiven.
Forgive but don't forget.

Forgiving is not forgetting, it's letting go of the hurt. But if you can't forget what's the sense in forgiving? Because it seems to bother you every now and then and trust is never the same anymore.

But then in the long run, it's not a question of whether they deserve to be forgiven. You don't forgive them for their own sake. Do it for yourself. Don't let these people stay in your heart and mind for long. Don't be the prisoner of someone's mistakes. let it go. Feel good about it.

Forgiveness brings inner peace.

Decisions

Just a thought:

One of the hardest parts of life is deciding when to give up and when to try harder.