Friday, May 23, 2008

friendship/trust

Friendship is based on trust, how can you trust someone who you have never met?

And does it mean the online friendship is not a friendship in full sense?
Or is it based on some different kind of trust?
How REAL an ONLINE friendship can be?
How much can you get attached to someone you have never seen face-to-face?
How much it hurts when they leave? And do they ALWAYS leave?

These are just questions, i have my own answers, you have yours... more of my own you can read on the main blog HERE... more of your thoughts I want to read in my comments section :)

Monday, May 12, 2008

Forgive but Don't Forget?

It is tough to say 'I am sorry' but sometimes it is even tougher to accept this 'I am sorry' from someone who hurt you. Because some things can't be fixed with a "sorry".

People say only the strongest can forgive.
Forgive and be forgiven.
Forgive but don't forget.

Forgiving is not forgetting, it's letting go of the hurt. But if you can't forget what's the sense in forgiving? Because it seems to bother you every now and then and trust is never the same anymore.

But then
in the long run, it's not a question of whether they deserve to be forgiven. You don't forgive them for their own sake. Do it for yourself. Don't let these people stay in your heart and mind for long. Don't be the prisoner of someone's mistakes. let it go. Feel good about it.

Forgiveness brings inner peace.

Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Decisions

Just a thought:

One of the hardest parts of life is deciding when to give up and when to try harder.